Focus

We live the life we want to live. We make the effort to have the things we want to have or we don’t have them. We either complain about everything we don’t have or we are grateful for the things we do have. We all have a mental list of priorities for ourselves that we don’t really talk about but our lives revolve around that list of priorities….

My priorities are to have a healthy mentality instead of a toxic one. So if I have suddenly stopped talking to anyone or slowly stepped away from those that I used to keep in constant contact with it could be because maintaining a connection isn’t one of my priorities any more. It could mean that somehow my connection to you is detrimental to my mental health. It is nothing personal against anyone but my mental health and my life is most important to me and if that is something that is hard to understand then that right there tells me that my decision to walk away was the best decision I could make for myself.

One day it will be understood when you are faced with the same decision. Not until it happens to you will you fully understand why some people do the things they do. Until it happens all you can say is that you do get it but in reality you don’t get it and will not get it until it happens to you. I would rather not hear anything about anything in my life until you have experienced the exact same things in your life.

We are all just winging it, why go around and tell other people how to live when you yourself have no idea what is going on in your own life. Change your focus to you and only you, what is going on inside you and why you feel that way as it pertains to you and go from there, only with you. We are not put on this earth to go around telling others what they do are wrong and they should do it this way because in all actuality we don’t really know what we are doing ourselves.